I expect it will arrive by friday. If you ordered it direct from the importer I always get mine in 2-3 days, so far anyway. A 50W heater sounds too powerful to most people for such a small tank, but they are what I use (also used in the 15L) on all mine, I don't think those lucky enough to live in warmer climates realise how cold it can get here (especially over night), and if you live in an old house like I do they don't hold the heat very well being brick without cavity walls etc. I once tried a 25W in a 20L and it couldn't cope............. was on constantly and soon gave up the ghost for good.
I would leave some prepared zerowater in an old 1L bottle then for your mum to use to top up the tank if needed. If the water level drops to the point where it switches off automatically and it isn't then topped up the water will cool quite quickly in a small tank, but as you say, it is safe in that the heater shouldn't break. Evaporation will also depend on how good the cover is as well.
Simon